Weird True Love: A Printable

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Well, I was returning yesterday from the Target pharmacy where I had stopped to pick up Monkey’s acid reflux medicine.  Bless his little heart, he is the happiest of babies, but he does spit up, and sometimes it makes him quite uncomfortable.  As I was walking back to my car, I saw a quote written on the windshield of someone’s car.  It read:

“We’re all a little weird. And life is a little weird. And when we find someone whose weirdness is compatible with ours, we join up with them and fall into mutually satisfying weirdness—and call it love—true love.”

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Wordless Wednesday: 4-Months-Old

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Monkey is 4 months old now.  It’s hard to believe, and I keep squeezing him extra tight and enjoying that delicious baby smell because I know that the newborn days are flying by.  Each passing day is bittersweet– it is wonderful to watch him grow and thrive, but I miss some of his itty bitty baby behaviors.  I took these pictures early this evening.

Monkey is such a happy baby.  He is a joy to be around:

A Tossed Salad Life: 4-month-old Smile

He is such a smiley boy– he loves to laugh.  Frog was much harder to make smile.

A Tossed Salad Life: 4-month-old smile



Relationship Status: It’s Complicated {Stepfamily Situations}

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Several months ago, I was at a Cub Scout den meeting, talking to another mother and her 9-year-old son.  We were discussing requirements for the next Cub Scout rank, and the mother explained that her son needed to complete the “Family Fun Night Requirement.”  Her son looked at me, and said, “Well, I guess I won’t get my Bear Badge, I don’t have a family.”  I’ve known this family for 5 years, and watched the parents struggle with their marriage, and their subsequent divorce.  Overall, the parents did a great job working as a coparenting team, and I was impressed at how successful they were at working towards the best interests of their son.   The dad moved into a house that was only 5 houses down the street from the mom, and the son seemed to be handling everything as well as could be hoped. Of course, it can be challenging to keep the delicate two-household equilibrium for a long period of time.  About eighteen months ago, this child’s father was deployed to Afghanistan for nine months.  Upon returning to the US, he was stationed another state, and is now about 7 hours away from his son.  When I asked this child what he meant about not having a family, he said, “It’s just me and mom.  Dad lives so far away now.  I don’t have a real family.”
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Garden Lights at Atlanta Botanical Gardens

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We usually go see a holiday lights exhibit each year.  Until this year, for the previous 5 years, we’d all load up in a car and head to Callaway Gardens to see their Fantasy in Lights show.  That show peaked in excitement for us about 3 years ago, and Frog asked if we could see something new.  Around the Atlanta area, there are a number of great holiday light exhibits, including our next door neighbors, but last year we went to the Atlanta Botanical Gardens to see the Garden Lights exhibit, and we had heard that the display was supposed to be even better this year.
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A First Christmas: Visiting Santa and Christmas Card Photos

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I love Christmas.  I mean really, I *LOVE* Christmas.  I love Christmas Carols.  I love the smell of Frasier Firs and Balsam.  I love Gingerbread and Pumpkin Pie.  I love reading Holiday Newsletters.  I love seeing light displays around our neighborhood.  I love finding the perfect gifts for the people I love.  I love spending the day with my family.  I have been so very excited about this season since this Christmas is Monkey’s first.  I’ve wanted to make sure that he looked the part to commemorate all of those special firsts.
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Gingerbread House

Gingerbread House Decorating Party

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Tonight we went to a Gingerbread House decorating party with my parents.  Frog and I both love to create and do crafts together, so this was a lot of fun for both of us.  Since Monkey is too little to make his own house, I decorated one for him.  My parents and MM gave me and Frog decorating suggestions and complimented the designs, but they weren’t particularly interested in actively decorating the house.   MM and my father spent most of their time snuggling Monkey:

Grandfather and Frodo
We were given huge bags of Royal Icing (the kind of frosting that dries hard) along with blank gingerbread houses.  There were about 15 different types of candy available for use.  I used gumdrops and mints on my house along with a few nonpareils. Frog had a lot more fun with his house, and used a little bit of everything.  He went for a Spanish style, attaching Twizzlers for his roof.

Frog Decorating his Gingerbread House

Afterwards, MM and I tried to get a few photos of Monkey and Frog– we’re still working on our Christmas card photo, and we’re running out of time.  Monkey had patiently waited for 2 hours while we worked on our houses, so he wasn’t in the best mood for taking photos.  We’ll have to try again later in the week.  Unfortunately Frog’s sweater has Royal icing and is back in the wash.

Of course, the best part of the party, besides the two nice houses sitting in my kitchen, is the fact that there was absolutely no clean up for me.  All the dried frosting, chocolate smudges and peppermint crumbs were cleaned up for us after we left!

 Gingerbread House